Embrace your own flow [Valentines Day]

Spoil yourself & Love on your friends

February has been and always will be the month of love.  With Valentine’s upon us it’s quite a big deal for most. Fiery rouge and opulent blanc hues seem to be the order of the day. Teddy bears galore and coffee mugs to add to a dozen collections have become quite the norm around this time and each year the craze never goes out.

While others are on romantic getaways, some discovering love in a whole new light and others hoping for a ring, Valentine’s brings with it at most warm and fuzzy feelings. Whatever it is you’re doing or hoping to get its proof that celebrating love is on the table.

While some are focused on their loved one, it’s not a mutual feeling all round. Celebrations of love are taking place while others are taking this time pretty hard, loneliness being something I’ve come across year after year with friends, family and perfect strangers.. I however, just want to spread the love and encourage anyone whose struggling right now to stop throwing a pity party  and try something different, have fun, spoil yourself, go somewhere you have never been before - me time is luxury after all, just embrace your own flow.

 You are beautiful and if you deserve anything at all – loving yourself should be top priority. So what if the person you cared about left you, disappointed you or didn’t step up, maybe it’s just not yet your time to be and that’s okay  - it shouldn’t rob you of your happiness – everything starts with you; love on your friends, your family and most importantly love on yourself. You have my permission to buy yourself those shoes you have been eyeing for months or that outfit you know you will look good in. Embrace this time to give yourself the best time possible – life’s too short to be miserable and not have nice clothes and a smile on your face.

Have a good one

Happy Valentine’s Day